EkoCityonwheels Inspiration Today 11-03-2012:4 Concentrations to Start Being a Happy Husband, RIGHT NOW

I figured this would be a good idea to start off the new year for those who have decide to have the balls to take the quality of life back into their own hands starting day. Remember, this is for YOU to start concentrating on YOU. You tried depending on someone else to make you a happy husband and THAT just doesn’t work!
Time to take charge of your life again and be happy. So I’m going to share what has worked for ME.

Here are 4 Concentrations to Start Being a Happy Husband, RIGHT NOW

1. Don’t wait for a time to start. Start being a happy husband NOW

The first step to being a Happy Husband is to decide, RIGHT NOW, to do so.

Leave all that New Year’s Resolution bullshit to the losers who keep lying to themselves every year. They start some fad and forget about it 3 months later. Don’t wait until the beginning of the month or the beginning of the week either.

START NOW. Right after you finish reading this blog post. Post a comment to promise yourself that you are making a decision to start being happy TODAY

2. Pick a hobby that will get you out of the house

The main reason that you’re not a happy husband right now is because you feel like you are trapped and can’t do anything about it. Get the hell out of the house on a regular basis, trust me, you’ll start to feel better.

I don’t care if you’re broke or rich. Your new hobby can be going to the park or coffee shop to read, play chess or people watch or taking fishing/camping trips. It has to be something that you can do alone. This is NOT the time to cheat on your wife it’s the time to spend time with YOU.

The point is. Get Outside. Get away from your wife and/or family and spend some time by yourself. Do you remember the peace you had when you were single and had alone time? You can have that again once you have a REASON to get away. Face it, SHE will not accept the idea of you just hanging out with a friend or “going for a drive”. If you have a constructive reason to “get away”, SHE will be happy that you are doing something worth while and will support your absence (especially if she can benefit from it, see #3).

3. Join a gym, because a happy husband stays in shape

Face it. MEN NEED to exercise to maintain muscle that feeds and develops testosterone. We are built on testosterone. Testosterone is what drives us to want to DO anything in life. This is the juice that is naturally manufactured by MEN inside of our bodies that controls our sex drive, sex appeal, ambition, hell even the size of our manhood!

I’m telling you, skip the little blue pill, pick up some weights instead

You want to start being a happy husband, Join a gym tomorrow and talk to a trainer about losing your gut and building muscle. It doesn’t matter if you’re fat or skinny. You NEED the gym. Once those juices start flowing, you’ll start feeling better and whatever the hell is going on at home, you’ll handle it better.

A bonus will be that your wife will notice and one of the following will happen:

• She will get off HER fat ass and start working out too
• She will get jealous and/or worried start treating you better
• She will get turned on my this new MAN she has and start giving up the booty again

And don’t start with bullshit excuses like “I don’t have enough money” or “I don’t have the time”.

Bullshit. Do you WANT to be a Happy Husband or NOT?

MONEY: Just get to a no-frills, inexpensive gym. I’m a member of Planet Fitness right now and it only cost me $10/month. Stay away from that posh, upscale shit that is actually a club, not a gym. You know those places that offer massages, juice bar, towel service, steam room…? That’s a health club where people walk around hanging out instead of working out. Visit it and you’ll see 95% of the people pretending to be working out but spending most of their time socializing.

You want a GYM that simply has the following

• Weights,
• Treadmills,
• Some space to work out
• A shower.

Those 4 thing are a MUST .

TIME: You have to MAKE time for yourself if you want to be a Happy Husband. No one is going to GIVE you the time. Be a MAN and take the time out of your day for yourself. Are you so whimpy that you let your wife or boss control your time by making you feel obligated to do things but can’t call your own shots?

Besides, you only need about 60 minutes for gym time:

• 5 mins – Change into gym clothes
• 10 mins- HARD cardio
• 30 mins – Weight training
• 15 mins – shower, change clothes

4. Spend time around attractive women

Men LIKE to be around attractive women. It’s even better if the woman pays attention to us, right? This is the only reason why we like to go to strip clubs and restaurants where attractive women will serve us.

But you don’t always have to PAY women to notice you. You can simply go to places where women already are and BE around them. As long as you keep your mind clear of lust, LOOK and ACT like you are a happy husband and dress like you have a decent job, you won’t seem threatening. Goal #2 will help with this, especially if you choose a hobby that includes getting out and observing others and casual reading.

You’ll catch on to what casual conversion is like WITHOUT pick up lines.

Here’s the key: You HAVE to have something to talk about or at least be able to comment on what being discussed. If you don’t have anything to contribute, your presence around these attractive women will just come across as some kind of a creep. You HAVE to have something to talk about. Something intelligent, again, WITHOUT trying to pickup a woman.

Remember, you’re supposed to be a HAPPY HUSBAND. A HAPPY husband is non-threatening and to attractive women because they don’t have to worry about ANOTHER man trying to pick them up.

• Some will feel comfortable with you as a “friend” to lean on and tell secrets,
• Some will even fun challenging your faithfulness and
• Some others will even practice their flirtation with you (verbal and non-verbal)

In return, you can simply enjoy the presence of these fine women and go home with a smile on your face. It feels really good to be in the presence of attractive women.

There ya go. Get going on your way to being a Happy Husband, Starting TODAY:

1. Make the decison and Start NOW
2. Pick a hobby that will get you out of the house
3. Join a gym
4. Spend time around attractive women